Thanksgiving chronicles; World tour lavida local!

Appreciation post Day 28.

This year was amazing, why? Well,coz this year I embarked on my world tour and the good Lord was faithful. He kept me safe throughout the trips I embarked on. Lol,the testimony is very late but I’m super grateful to God for keeping me from 2013 to 2017,from protecting me on the road trips I took from my father’s house in the abroad to my torture camp which doubles as my tertiary institution in the other part of these people’s country. He never let me experience any ill luck on the high way,saved my little life from robbers on the night trips I took, He took the wheels each and every time a pilot decided to be the driver when I’m not traveling to London by road😭. He never left me stranded and for this I am most grateful💪
Forward to my world tour I took 2 months ago, the story begins…as a baby girl that I am rightfully to be but being pre-broke right now is spoiling my shine, the good Lord decided to provide funds for me to live the good Life. As a child of the Father and I did not want to fall into peer pressure and being too proud, I resisted from putting world traveller, travel blogger and attaching my e-mail to signify business only in my bio😭the things I do to remain humble sha😭it’s because of you people oo. I just want you guys to know now I’m an Ajala. I have crossed border, I have crossed bridge, I have eaten foreign delicacies(I have eaten amala,it’s not my native meal hence it’s foreign o😭).I am foreign. We are not mates oo,thank you.

My world tour picked up at Uturu in Abia state and exchange of convertible took place at Okigwe in IMO state (if you sat with me in the Bus I boarded and you say feeeem…it’s all over for you oo so ki yin shuru). Yes,my dear friend it was a BMW convertible😭such wonderful motor. It was a wonderful trip dear people of God and we stopped over at Asaba my mendem community💪did stuff blah blah. Stopped over at Edo again for another something like that😫then we finally made it to you people’s other abroad😭.

The land every contact on my Snapchat app drops geo-filter for. Nnem nà nnam,I finally made it to Lagos😭and I saw…very terrible things(in Buhari’s voice).

All of them in Lagos are mad o,hiann. They all have photocopied lives at home but they’ve not yet informed the rest of the country to be aware of the recent development nii o.

People of God, if you don’t have it in you to be a cultist/tout, you can and will not survive iyo. Just see na,innocent abroad girl like me finally thought to shift to Lagos and I realized those lagosians are my seniors.

Blah blah we move forward, my Lagos story will come another day.

P.s; Y’all don’t play yourself,the kosai at Ibadan is😭😭😍😍😍my God!

As a plug that I am, let me connect y’all to where you get good food ko.

 

Lagos; Everything there is nice😭especially that woman who sells her bread and ewa goyin😭(I hope I spelt correctly)

Ibadan; Gbegiri like this😭father in heaven and kosai(akara) of course.

Ekiti; ??

Delta ; Starch and gum soup with sapele water😍if yuno yuno

Abuja; the entire city just smells and Taste’s of good life like this. The baby girl life,shuga baby life…
Enugu; opa dikwa ezigbote okwu😍etc
Thank you Lord for 2017,I look forward to great things in 2018🙏❤

Thanksgiving Chronicles; Friends with home training!

I am grateful today for those friends who visit our houses and suddenly become very good people. You think it’s me you’re doing😭wawu.. Thank you my baby girl of life🙏

South shout to y’all mehnn,you are a girl’s favourite person in the world after zobo.

Let me give you a good example edakun. One time my very good friend blah blah came to the house o and from the moment mama stepped through my father’s gate,I knew the weekend was going to be a long one. Who else visits her friend’s house with loose jeans,long top,scarf and jacket in her arms for incase situation😭. For chrissakes,this Aunty was putting on a shirt dress in her snap story and she left Southern  Fried Chicken eatery a while ago dressed like that,how did she change outfits so quick? Anyway, we walk to my Dad’s sitting room where he sat with his wife discussing how I want to become useless with my life(all because I did not come back for holidays with my school books) I was not done with introducing the young lady o to the family, next thing I heard was “O Daddy,good afternoon Sir” and someone hugging my mother “mummy,mummy good afternoon, how is work ma?” My shock never complete till I came to a somewhat deep realization that all these greeting was done with her on her knees😭😭Obara Jesus🙆 I swear down till today I’ve not seen the size of that grin on either of my parrnts faces oo😂😂 

My guy,the thing be say I shock gan.For real,who does that?😂😂 I drag her ass to my room still in shock o then my momma calls me,still smiling she tells me to go serve my friend food. Normal thing,I bring the rice o,momma provide Chicken,prepared salad there there😭plantain and still gave me her cherished bottle of “Pure Heaven” to give my very friend. I went on with the flow after swearing for my friend for providing me with chores. My parents were sooo happy.

Mama chop finish,next thing she comes to thank my parents for the food provided, kneeling down yet again(displaying home training up and down) initial rubbish continued.

She insists on helping me take her used plates to the kitchen (who likes stress).I did not let her beg two times I gave her her load to take to the kitchen. Naso o,aunty carried her plates, washed her plates,wiped my momma’s kitchen, swept and still mopped the kitchen.😂😂🙆🙆 The point here is,the good Lord knows I would not have mopped that kitchen at that moment thus he sent me a helper😭see,when the Lord wants to bless you,he surprises you to silence😂😂😂my Jehovah Overdo💪💪 Agú na che mbà!!

You really think it’s me your doing by displaying excess home training inside my own father’s house,such a wow.. My sister, your brother/male cousins will still like me without my home training I only reserve when nobody is around.. Last last abi we’re still single together??😂😂kolework o!

P.s; I swear I am ever happy and dance filled whenever my friends with home training visits😭😂it’s like you dunno you’re playing yourself😂😂ohh no baby… What is you doing?? 😂😂 My brothers are married😂my mother can not refer you to any man oo, highest they wee talk about your home training

Moral of this story is; Don’t let your penalty enter throwing

Happy Holidays people❤ 

Thanksgiving Chronicles; This is it series with Lowla_dee

I am grateful to the most high for momma bear @_lowla_dee for a lot of reasons but I will try to make it as short as possible. Thank you ma for blessing me with “This is it” seasons 1 to 2,every episode shown was a blessing to me but you do not understand.

Knowing the little I know about you,I do believe there is indeed a God who rules from up above. From the production process to the viewing process every progress and step made is a testimony. Thank you for being an example of how faith works once you leave it all to God🙏

Few people amongst my people know that amongst my greatest fear,”the fear of commitment which leads to marriage “tops my list.. Ohhh save the drama,I was not emotionally damaged as a child. Don’t find yourself in my DM offering condolences, na my fear let’s not argue ownership.

This is it is a story of young people who are working hard for their relationships to come through. I was introduced to Dede (who If I do say so myself half the time behaves like me😭) being asked for her hand in marriage and by God I was scared incase she refused Tee’s request, but she knew Tomide was and is all she would ever need.

Falling in love and being in love is a different wahala on it’s own.In this generation in which I exist, I’ve seen marriages and relationships I’ve literally shouted goals to,crash at the slightest provocation, which hardened my resolve on marriage not being as amazing as our parents play  it to be. Dede and Tomide proved to me that marriage ought to be forever and whenever things plan on getting tight, I should always try to remember why and who I fell in love with at the first instance and fight to get that person back coz it’s never really about me anymore, it is US now. Don’t sleep on the issue o jare, life is too short!

“This is it” taught me that genuine and real friendship is really all the world needs. My friends are my siblings and it doesn’t really matter what womb they decided to jump out from. Sam and Tee have the type of relationship I’ve always prayed and longed to have. Knowing that no matter the situation, you always have someone to fall back on and gives you the best typa support ever. Their friendship is so amazing it influences the relationship between their spouses.

Kerry the drama Queen😂I love you and everything you represent. You’re a good example of not letting what you’ve been through affect you hence you share your love to whoever comes through and family is important❤I understand it now.

Sam;the thinking head😏man of the house,you showed me how no matter you don’t get support from your family, you can and should pursue your goals and now… Forbes🙏migawwd. Thank you, I’m not letting this lesson pass me.

Dede my spirit animal😏arrghh.. You are a lot of things but selfish is not one of it. I hope to be as supportive as you are to Tee,committed as you are to Tee,giving up your dream job coz of Tomide…wow… Baby girl..you are goals..

Tomide Tee mewande😍 @chyleona and I’s husband, awa man😍 with you depicting the resilience of a strong black young African man,I finally admit there’s no wrong with a man who’s about his family first.  You represented the rear essence of a man in an African home and awarded the role total justice😭😍like have you seen how he treats Dede😭😭??

Lowla decided to touch on a range of topics marriages go through and not stick to deluding me. Topics ranging from the big change from being Miss to Mrs and how it affects/changes relationships with friends,the situation of having one person with means of income, in-law drama, not getting pregnant immediately situation,how trauma affects the family, stress/depression on men in an African situation and how it’s never really talked about(turns out it’s not a bad idea after all to seek help;it doesn’t mean you’re a weak man), placing God as the foundation in a marriage,…I just want you to know that “the reawakening” got me,if Yuno Yuno..so I choose not to talk about it…

Blah blah before I get all mushy and gist y’all the movie😭go and watch for yourself bruhhh… I was patient every Tuesday this year fam. I am proud to be amongst the Tuesday squad people💪. Go support my family @chyleona @nenemutuma @stannze @bimboademoye subscribe to our YouTube page (y’all notice how I make use of our😂)

God bless you @_lowla_dee and all you are,more greatness to come for you in Jesus name. Keep being amazing ma❤
P.s; This is not a review o cos I’m bias. I’m sorry it’s that way but that’s really how I feel about anything that’s 💯,I swear it’s so so so good,I promise. 

P,s.s; Marriage is not bad after all😖😏

Thanksgiving Chronicles; Men Cannot Be Scum.

Hey Gramfam,

It’s a new month and I decided to challenge myself into taking my personal blog seriously, hence, I embarked on this daily blog upload for the whole of December and share with y’all the stuff I’m grateful to God for. The activities/actions/people/blah blah I encountered this year and thankful for. I’m sorry but I’m going to bombard your feeds with my pictures and favourite people in the world. It’s near impossible for me to fit every single person I’ve come across here but I want you to know I love you and I’m very grateful you exist in my world and you making it perfect.

Whewww…you know that scripture which speaks “blessed are you amongst women…” Right! So it applies to me but in my case I am blessed amongst men😭😍. I am thankful to God for the gift of mendem/boys/males/ndi nwoke😂. I thank the lord for blessing me with wonderful men in my life who show me in more ways than one that “men are not actually scum” I am grateful for every gentleman in my life who have made it a point of contact of dropping me in the mendem zone, I am grateful for these men who display charisma that boasts of proper upbringing and thus I’m no longer scared for the future generation because here I see and know good men,great men,amazing husbands,awesome Fathers,leaders, purpose filled and spiritually filled men who work solely towards glorifying the Father.

Blah blah fast forward, I am grateful for the Hausa men in my life who have shown me”money no be problem😭thank you Big Guy for my potential shuga Daddies🙏. Sanu hunnay😏❤

I am grateful for the Yoruba boys dem who double as part-time Yoruba demons😍y’all really owned my heart this year😂handsome men like this with the beard gang thing. Uhumm..most times dreads😖arrghh wuna fine die na just the thing🙏I bless God for you people and giving me a year long work experience😭😂thank you for the certificate❤eshe gan!

I am thankful for the Ibo boys I encountered this year💪Igbo kweze Unu o🙌the six packs I discovered😭twas not in vain. Igbo boys that displayed the “Ego di, baby girl talk to me”😂 your days shall be long. Upcoming Oyinbo boys like this, your drive towards doubling una income was motivation to me, Chukwu gozie unu.

Arrghh, my mendem from the south side… Urhobo wado💪Itshekiri wado,I never learnt the calabar part😭I’m sincerely sorry for not learning awa language😭arrghh that Ijaw boy too😏 the thing is ehnn,thank you for existing🙌 the love is very real from this end❤

Lastly but not the least at all,I give glory to God for my men in the diaspora😭😍😍arrghh, my green card husband material 100 yards😏❤🙌🙌 Migwo💪I appreciate you very very well. Next year is fast approaching Dede,let me show you directions to my Father’s house come January. It is the least you can do after all the being single I have played all year😏😍
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P.s;Yeske, I’m always almost found in the midst of men,bite me!

You saw a picture of my sister😏nope God makes no mistake, that’s my Man❤

P.s.s; I cannot put up the pictures I really want to display coz I cannot comman start fighting in the comment section with anybody’s girlfriend😔I will keep on stalking your man’s IG iyoo,best believe that!